Or should I wise up and realize she's still in love with her ex?.
One of my BFFs tested today, and she's an ESFJ like me...and let me tell you, she's one of the most emotionally unstable, disorganized, flighty, spontaneous, makes-no-judgments, free-lovin' people I've ever known - in short, my exact opposite. I love her dearly as a friend, but she's honestly nothing like me..
pink tutu ballerina.
In fact, I will clarify, for me to want to rip some ones clothes off, they not only have to be hot, but have the right chemistry and personality. So it is not just about looks, oops. An @sshole would turn me off too much to think of them sexually..
On a more serious note - it also sounds like he's good at manipulation - the longer you stay with this the more trapped you'll become. Get out while the going is good..
I'm looking for someone to spend some time with and have some fun with. We can see where it lead..
do u like larger chests or smaller ibts??.
Also, naah gonna have to pass on the swap, I think my credit is stretched already to the max =).
I was totally ready to move on to the next thread, but your posts as I mentioned before this week, have raised more questions than answers about this whole thing..
I trust her, but she has poor boundaries with other guys (ie. is very flirtatious, touchy, etc, but truly doesn't realize that she comes across that way). I already told her that it's still likely this guy has feelings for her, but that she should go if she wants to see him. Should I just forget about it and simmer in my own insecurity or is it worth bringing up again?.
Until she gets to a place where she wants to change for herself, it won't happen. Basic human psychology is to resent and rebel against forced change. So the more you try to drag her to the gym and the more you try to change her eating habits, the more she'll want to stay where she is..
stunning body....shame about face.
I remember on my last drive home after meeting someone who was 1.5 hours away that this isn't worth it. It's just not worth the time and energy when I can meet someone closer. While 1.5 hours isn't considered a LDR, it kinda is. You cannot meet on a whim for snow cones..