and then women ask why there are no good guys left..
@PeachEaterOk, now I'm gonna imagine that the girl from Jurassic Park grew up into this. I will now proceed to j....
Try to look a little deeper than just, you get irritated, and then he gets irritated. There's always a million thoughts and feelings going on below the surface of a relationship. If you can pull out the main themes, feelings, ideas, then you can attempt to change those. If you can't... then nothing will change..
If you see just want to kiss her when you see her that means you are FALLING FOR HER and are romantically attracted to her..
I guess I am settling, to a certain extent. He really is a good guy and I genuinely like being with him, I just don't want his kids. If it wasn't for the kids then he'd have been pretty much what I was looking for in a man... he's fit, intelligent, fun to be with, we get on well, etc. The things that would make me regard the relationship as "settling" aren't issues between us as a couple, they're external issues, i.e. his kids. The two of us get along just fine, as long as it's just the two of us... which it is 99% of the time, because as I said, I have very little to do with his kids... I didn't even know they existed until several weeks into the relationship, because he knew I didn't want kids and he didn't want to put me off. I agreed to give the relationship a try, as long as he didn't expect me to be involved with his kids, and he said he was fine with that..
The friend of yours could be a little jealous that they aren't getting the same treatment, or able to give the same treatment, or something of the sort... Honestly... If you're good with it, do it. Then when you come back and say,"holy crap that was the BEST" your friend will be eating dirt..
Such a pretty face and I bet a lot of people don't even notice!.
SHE ALWAYS CONTACTS ME WHEN I LEAVE SO YES I GO BACK AND SEE HER SOMETIMES BUT I DONT WANT TO COMMIT TO SOMEONE WHO FLIPS OUT..
arghhhh...!! Men! Sometimes I think I'm wasting my energy and sometimes I think it's just so hard to find a good man - he's not a player, he doesn't have baggage from his marriage, he's very good to me, so I should just hang in there - does anyone have a crystal ball? Think about what I deserve? I've been looking for a good man for a long time. They are scarce ya know......