"You've been working hard for this and its your dream to work there. Just because you ruined us doesn't mean I'm going to be the person to stop you from chasing that.".
I appreciate in women fidelity and reliability so that I can feel safe with he..
The third girl is the one that I am currently seeing. We don't have any passion in our relationship. First of all, I don't think she sees us as equals...as in she thinks I'm too good for her. She has low self esteem and comes from a family with serious issues in the past. She is afraid to challenge me on anything or disagree with me on even the most trivial of topics for fear that I might get upset even though I've never gotten upset and in fact encourage her to challenge me in the hopes that we might have a lively and fun debate. She treates me like gold and is a wonderful and giving person in every respect, but yet there is something missing. She is a smart girl, but she is not as intellectual as myself and has told me that she is intimidated by me in this respect as well as other areas as she says I do every thing better than she can do. We work for the same company and she is a perfect fit for me in many ways but yet I am not content. I learned a long time ago that people are who they are and rarely change (myself incuded) I know that the term soulmate is an overused cliche, but I am wondering if am being to idealistic to expect to find someone that stimulates me intellectually and physically?.
Yes, you didn't get "angry" and you didn't come off as "needy/controlling" but you did become "passive aggressive" and "hard to deal with" from the guys' perspective. This is almost equally as bad..
Honestly what it sounds like to me is you are half hearted because of your "absolutely stunning" coworker who is "touchy feely". Maybe you are looking for a cop out excuse because the grass looks greener and serene on the other side of the fence?.
I dated a woman who cheated in her marriage. She was incredibly good at lying and covering up. As with all new relationships, you talk about previous ones. The conversation turned to cheating, and while my answer was "no" her answer was "almost". That was a red flag that I absolutely missed. I thought nothing of it, because I really didn't "dig" into it after that..
I'm easy to get along with, good listener, have a heart for kids, can be a little bit shy,I don't like dram..
No. Just end it, without any chance of "being friends" or "taking a break" or any nonsense like that. Just move on..
He is conflict avoidant and secretive by nature..
wow smoking hot !.